In The Team’s Words: Coping with Infertility

We asked members of the team for words of encouragement for people going through the various reproductive stages. Here are some of our responses in our own words…

For those coping with infertility

“It might be hard to accept but some family members and friends may not be able to provide the type of emotional support you need, for a variety of reasons. You have the right to choose your support network based on those individuals who can meet your needs - and it’s ok if they’re not the people you had thought you’d turn to.” - Rebecca Orsini

“You are allowed to say no to events that are upsetting for you (e.g., baby showers), even if that event is for your best friend or family member”. - Dr. Samantha Waxman

“It's okay to feel sad and confused. Don't blame yourself.” - Yolanda Testani

“Difficulty conceiving is never a sign that having a baby isn’t ‘meant for’ you.” - Dr. Jill Satin

“Trying to conceive can feel like a full time job, and even full time employees can enjoy a weekend getaway. So find your version of a mini-vacation from TTC to give your mind and body some rest.” - Clarissa Ee

“Difficulty conceiving does not mean that you are defective.” - Amit Hochman